March 20, 2017
they recently showed the Theory of Everything on free-to-air tv. While Stephen Hawking is an inspirational figure, he’s not necessarily aspirational for me. I’m nowhere near as smart. We need people we can relate to. I accomplish things because I’m not dumb and work really hard.
I know Dr. Stephen Strange is fictional but I could weirdly relate more to the film Doctor Strange. I’m not a surgeon but I guess it had to do with embracing the unexplainable despite bring logical.
Strangely enough in the movie Logan, I could relate to both Professor X and Wolverine – this was the first time I saw myself in two characters. Maybe it was their “fall from grace” so atypical of a superhero flick or maybe it’s because I’m such a comic book nerd.
Regardless, we’re all different, relate to certain things, and process things at our own pace. Despite people’s insistence, a single, magic, silver bullet “solution” doesn’t always exist. Some issues are divergent or require multiple things acting in harmony. Narrowing it to one thing would be great but that isn’t always possible.
December 30, 2016
At business school, I was taught about clusters and diamonds. Given the “horrendous” traffic in the Philippines, I think we need to consider other models which may co-exist with these. Sure, zoning is a definite constraint but we need to plant local opportunities: where “quality” jobs are available nearby instead of the CBD (where people need only travel within or to directly adjacent municipalities or towns).
This might spell a boost in employee productivity and this will definitely improve the quality of life of people. A ‘win-win” as it were: we need to move away from “zero-sum” thinking.
This may not be in line with “conventional” wisdom but we need to try something different.
August 22, 2013
a former computing student of mine has a gig in America as a back-up singer to Lea Salonga – she has one of the best voices I’ve ever heard. It just goes to show you: it’s shouldn’t be about what the family thinks is best but rather about what the child actually wants. Admittedly, it’s hard for any parent seeing their child struggle but they need to learn to be supportive and respect the child’s happiness. Sometimes the best of intentions have unintended consequences.
It’ not always just about what they’re good at or what’s expected of them but truly what they’re interested in. As a case in point, my son is strong in maths but he seems to us more inclined to the arts. Anyway, it’s early days and his proclivities may still change – we just need to expose him to different things so that he can make an “informed” decision when the time comes. They say if you enjoy what you do, you never work a day in your life – I think you subconsciously put more effort in to what you do. Not everyone is “lucky” enough to know what they want to be when they grow up.
I think my neurologist might be on to something with his “modified” gap year where his kids need to be gainfully employed for at least half of the time. If I were to “consider” it, there would be some mods. I think 3 months should be spent in industry while at least 3 months should be involved with the community. They should travel overseas to broaden the mind for some “informal” learning. While there, they must partly support themselves and try to learn the local language or dialect. Ideally they should live in 2 countries: one with a developed and another with a developing economy so that they can see the differences for themselves in everyday life. During the course of the year, they can take different topics online for free so that they can “better” determine which direction they want to take next.
I hope I don’t eat my words when the time comes – people and minds can change =)
August 12, 2013
a video presentation for my mum’s birthday was prepared by my younger brother and his close friend: an IT manager and a medical doctor respectively. I’m no “hippie” but it got me thinking about work-life balance again. we place too much emphasis on work as a source of identity – I did not help, sometimes having two jobs. Sundays were the greatest form of social legislation, no matter what religious tradition you hail from. All work and no play not only makes Jack a dull boy, I believe, but an unproductive one.
Not only is respite needed but partaking in other activities may, directly or indirectly, benefit one’s “work”. According to the Harvard Business Review, prospective employers now look for Master of Fine Arts graduates to complement their legion of MBAs and to provide out of the box thinking.
I wonder what they could have achieved if the economic pressures were not so great and the machinery to produce “skilled” automatons for industry was not so dominant.
July 24, 2013
this does not come naturally for me and this is reinforced by force of habit. I am told to look at things instead of negatively as I am prone to do so – that’s my default setting. I plan for the worst and often make contingencies. I should alternatively focus on ability than disability.
I’m often told to think about others who are worse off than me – well-intentioned as it is I’ve got several problems with this. It makes me even sadder: I’ve never taken pleasure in the misery of others – cause that what effectively it is. And although I can empathise, you can’t just lump all people with impairments together, we all have different stories – this is made even more difficult since they’re not sure what I have. What one can still do should instead be emphasised – admittedly this is hard for me going from two jobs to none. I try to use my “new found” time to better myself and become more functional. People say I’ve got an excuse from getting out of the housework – that’s little consolation for me since I’m used to doing those things.
As expected, I went through some of the stages of grief. I’m sort of better now but I still grapple with my situation. It’s not about bravery nor courage as others understandably assume, but rather about acceptance and learning how to do things again (sometimes differently).
I’m encouraged to be thankful and to write down at least three things I’m grateful for everyday – although I can’t always jot them down, thinking about things that way does help me. Being more optimistic does help but the 2nd law of thermodynamics can at times complicate things.
March 2, 2012
i find it harder to edit than start from scratch – it doesn’t matter what the work is: if it’s words or a program. Having something to begin with and modify isn’t always as “easy” as it’s cracked up to be.
February 28, 2012
it’s difficult to hold onto a fulll-tine job and raise children at the same time.