me, myself & I
April 13, 2016
movies like “The Big Short”, “The Wolf of Wall Street”, “2oolander”’ and television shows like “Billions” and “House of Cards” remind me how much narcissism is prevalent in our society. Media often reflects back the world we live in. I most of the time (in my view at least) can overshadow community. We still look to “exceptional” individuals as “saviors” when we should also “empower” everyone to contribute to changes ourselves (no matter how miniscule in the grand scheme of things). We should not solely have to rely on others to improve our lot but also allow for “grassroots” changes. We should not only embrace a “top-down” approach but additionally combine them with “bottom-up” methods.
Like all technology, social media can be a double-edged sword: at one end it is a tool for empowerment, at the other spectrum it feeds the “outrage machine”. We do not need to know all the minutia of your daily lives: we do not benefit from what you are doing 24×7. The majority of expressed opinions are often unconsidered – relative ease has trumped reflection, emotions override thoughts. Immediacy and convenience are at times not desirable nor appropriate. Do not get me wrong: providing a voice to the voiceless is good but one needs to consider the source/context and weigh the different perspectives. It is sad that some people hide behind anonymity and screen names to hurl abuse: a case in point is the withdrawal of such luminaries as Stephen Fry from Twitter – context can alter perceptions. Unfortunately, akin to what Churchill said about the shortcoming of democracy, social media is in the same boat. Like most prescription medication, the good hopefully outweighs the bad effects.